In Memory

Kent Hales

Lynn Kent Hales of Maynard, Mass., 76, passed away at CareOne Concord on Friday, October 28, 2022. Born on October 23, 1946, in Salt Lake City, Utah, he was the son of the late Lynn and Eleanor Hales. He truly loved growing up in the Salt Lake Valley and regaled friends and family with stories of street baseball, gully fires, East High adventures, and paper routes, car sharing and snow shoveling with his brother Jon.

Kent was known for his love of history, and truly lived it – having a father who was born in the nineteenth century and grandchildren who arrived in the twenty-first century. One of his chores as a young boy was fetching the block of ice for his family’s icebox; later in life he enjoyed sharing pictures on his smartphone.

A simple twist of fate brought “Mr. Touchdown” from East High in Salt Lake to Harvard University where he would play football and engage in his studies in politics and history. He would take a two-year sabbatical from his studies to embark on a mission to then-West Berlin as part of his Mormon faith – returning after two years of spiritual fulfillment to complete his undergraduate studies – which had by this time pointed him towards education. He was part of the football team that “beat” Yale 29-29 in 1968, and it was in Cambridge during his senior year that he met Janet Greenslade, the love of his life, in January of 1971. Saying to friends they were engaged as a joke after just two weeks of dating, the couple would indeed get married in June of that year, with Kent’s family traveling from Utah for a graduation/wedding combo celebration. It was the beginning of Kent and Jan’s “Fifty-One-Year Joke.”

Kent spent most of his career as a teacher and school administrator, carrying on a family tradition and bringing his own growing family along for the adventure – to California (where he became a father – his greatest calling – sons Jeremy and Travis being born), Massachusetts (daughter Melissa born), Switzerland and (West) Germany (son Tyler born). He sowed a love of history in his own children through their travels to historic sites throughout Europe, and always welcomed family members for visits of varying lengths of stay. He also rekindled his love of football, serving as a coach (and in some instances also a player) for the AFC Dusseldorf Bulldozers for a stint.

Upon returning to America, in historic Lexington of course, he coached various high school athletics teams and continued his work as an educator. Teaching and working with students of all ages was a lifelong passion. He eventually settled into a surprisingly fulfilling job of driving a cab, during which time he would frequently pick up college students needing a ride (well before any rideshare apps), often helping them with papers they were writing. Later he drove for a service that transported disabled veterans to medical appointments. (He also once picked up his daughter-in-law’s mother upon her arrival into Boston for the birth of both of their first grandchild, but asked her to feign blindness so that no one questioned him doing so in his cab.)

Kent was incredibly well read and a lively conversationalist, and truly took a keen interest in almost everyone he spoke with. He could somehow simultaneously interrogate, support, play devil’s advocate to any position, and kid all in the same conversation. He was both humble and proud, progressive and a traditionalist. He knew the most obscure facts about Red Sox minor leaguers and read every Tom Clancy book written, most of them three times. He could almost always be found with a book in one hand and a Diet Coke with ice nearby, as well as a stash of lollipops for the grandkids. He never saw a movie he graded any lower than a B-minus, remarking often, “It entertained me for a couple of hours!” He was known for his booming voice and his very special sense of humor, and he was a sucker for a Costco cake and McDonald’s fries – well-salted.

Most of all Kent loved spending time with his family. He roamed the diamonds, fields, and courts snapping pictures of his four children, and when he wasn’t doing that he was coaching them winter, spring, summer, and fall. He relished in every triumph of his children, and was there with supporting words and a pat on the back for every setback. “Opa” or “Grampa” frequently attended his grandchildren’s sporting and school events, where he was their biggest (and sometimes loudest) fan. On the annual family vacation to Maine, he always made sure to keep the place stocked with saltwater taffy, freeze pops, and various flavors of caramel corn or brittle. He always had kites for the grandchildren to fly on the beach, would occasionally (with much cajoling) join in a board game, and never saw a hearts hand he couldn’t shoot the moon with. The last time everyone was all together in York, in 2021, the family celebrated Kent and Jan’s 50th wedding anniversary – and Kent raised the family Gin Trophy for a fourth time.

Kent didn’t always play by the rules, but he always did what he thought was right, and his actions and moral compass were always inspired by love – love of family, faith, friends, justice and equality. He was lovingly stubborn and famously impatient – bellowing, “Come on people!” when waiting to leave to go somewhere, but remarkably quiet when folks were waiting for him.

Predeceased by his parents, sisters Rona Le, Mary Ann, and Lynore and brother Van, Kent leaves his wife Janet Faith (Greenslade) Hales of Maynard; children Jeremy Hales (Nicole) of Plymouth, Travis Hales of Maynard, Melissa Keefe (Bobby) of Plymouth, and Tyler Hales (Jena) of San Diego; grandchildren Caitlin, Sean, Quinn, Brendan, Coleman, Sebastian and Delaney; his sister Martha Ball of Salt Lake City and brother Jon Hales of Flagstaff; and many cousins, nieces and nephews in all corners of the country. Kent was always there for his family, but was always clear when he was done with a conversation or event, simply uttering, “There you go.”

The family would like to express their gratitude to the staff at CareOne at Concord for their incredibly kind and compassionate care of Kent over these past months.

Relatives and friends are respectfully invited to attend visiting hours at Fowler-Kennedy Funeral Home, 42 Concord Street, Maynard, on Thursday, November 3, from 4 p.m. to 7 p.m., as well as a funeral service held on Friday, November 4, at 11 a.m. at the Arlington Ward of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, 74 Ledgewood Place, Belmont.

Memorial donations may be made to the Maynard Education Foundation at https://maynardeducation.org/donatenow/ in memory of Kent.

https://www.legacy.com/us/obituaries/legacyremembers/lynn-kent-hales-obituary?id=36946164



 
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10/30/22 04:16 PM #1    

Glen Tolman

I was so sorry to hear of Kent's passing.  I really enjoyed connecting with him again at our 50 year reunion seven years ago. He will be missed.


10/31/22 09:04 AM #2    

Rick Sorensen

Kent Hales proved a wonderful and key friend beginning our sophomore year at  East High. When I decided to run for a sophomore class officer role, Kent became my campaign manager and the two of us concocted a stirring rendition from the salesmen on the train scene in the "Music Man" movie for our campaign speech. which I can still refrain in perfect cadence with both my role as well as Kent's. We won the election. Kent proved to be a star of our state championship team winning the Tom McCann Award our senior year as the outstanding high school football player in the state of Utah for his roles as quarterback, punter, wide receiver, and whatever other role was needed at the moment. We participated on the track team where Kent excelled in the hurdles and served as the accomplished team entrant into pentathlon events. Kent is a true friend to not just myself, but to all of our classmates as observed when he dedicated time at our Fifty Year Class Reunion interacting with as many class members as possible. He began the occasion with a few of us as close friends for a morning breakfast to then visiting with each and every person beyond the dimming of the lights for the evening. I am grateful to Kent for his leadership, kindness, and participation in the lives of many of us during our days in Salt Lake City and wish his family the very best for his life well lived. 


10/31/22 05:56 PM #3    

Steve Spencer

So saddened to learn of Kent's passing. From my days in Little League Baseball (in the same league with him), to the interaction at the 50-year Class Reunion, Kent was engaging and interesting. He always seemed personally interested in what was happening in my life and, as far as I could tell, showed that interest in all of us Class of '65 Leopards. His obituary illustrates the full, diverse and meaningful life he lived. Kent contributed much to our class and East High reputation, and will be missed!


11/01/22 05:05 PM #4    

Wilford Gardner

I was shocked and saddened when I read Kent Hale's obituary yesterday. Rick Sorensen and Steve Spencer have highlighted some of Kent’s virtues. For many of you, 1965 was the end of your interaction with Kent, other than at the 50 Year Class Reunion. His obituary fills out much of the “rest of his story” very nicely. My interaction continued as he and I went to “Boston” (actually Cambridge) for college; Kent at Harvard and me at MIT. We met together at church each Sunday and were taught by Jeanne Kimball’s amazing older brother, Tony Kimball. After our freshman year we both served missions; Kent in West Germany and me in Finland. We shared letters occasionally during that time. I was out for 2.5 years in Finland, so Kent got a year ahead of me in school. We still saw each other occasionally and I met Jan and saw how happy they were with each other. I stayed in Massachusetts for graduate school in the MIT/Woods Hole Oceanographic Institution Joint Program on Cape Cod. I stayed with Kent a time or two in the Boston area when he and Jan had children, and it was very amusing to hear Kent regale his kids with detailed descriptions of memorable plays on the high school gridiron. Starting a few years later when I moved to Columbia University, Kent and I exchanged Christmas letters annually up to 2021, so I got to read extended versions of many of the events mentioned in his obituary. His love of family and desire to help others was front and center in those letters. Rick emphasized Kent’s personal caring about everyone in our class. A great example of that was when the football team met together during the 50-year anniversary, Kent handed out 2-inch circular pins for all players and team support members. I still have mine. The pin has a football resting on the goal line and the individual’s first name and jersey number right below. He had these specially made. I don’t know how he knew the jersey numbers because they were not posted in the Yearbook. He must have saved some programs with names and numbers listed. Kent had a strong and unforgettable personality. He will be missed by his family, me, and by his many high school friends. I wish the best for his family.


11/01/22 09:08 PM #5    

Bernie Asahina

     I too was sorry to hear of Kent's passing.  I had a wonderful private breakfast with Kent during the days preceding our 50th Reunion.  We had a great time talking about shared memories, especially our basketball time at East.  He will be missed!


11/02/22 09:54 AM #6    

Doug Richards

Kent was a leader and example on and off the field.  We were all priviledged to be part of an amazing class of super people like Kent.  Kent's talents certainly played a significant part in the State championship-he was the best.  As Wilf said, after graduation really lost touch with him, but he reached out to everyone at our 50th reunion.  It is a sad day each time we lose a classmate.  Might be best said, "thanks for the memories." 


11/02/22 02:49 PM #7    

Randy Daynes

I was so saddened to hear of Kent’s passing. I talked with him at our 50th year reunion about some of his health problems. He was a really good athlete. He wanted more than anything to play college football which he was able to do.  This is the third really close high school friend who has passed away. This is a huge wakeup call. I am also so appreciative of my high school friends, some I am still really close with. We really did have a great high school class.


11/04/22 06:12 AM #8    

Marguerite Price (Searle)

Kent really reached out to everyone at our 50th reunion including myself.  What a special person to read each entry and make meaningful comments!  We had similar interests and experiences- we even got into my first husband and found they had both served in Germany.  Ironically Kent passed away on October 28th - the same day my husband passed 41 years ago.  I mentioned he'd have to meet my husband in the hereafter one day and ask him the questions I couldn't answer.  Well, sadly that day has come.  My best to his family who sound amazing and for the opportunity I had to get to know Kent and about his life on our East High web site!
So grateful he reached out to me!  Marguerite Price Searle

 


11/04/22 06:51 PM #9    

Drew Cannon

I like the rest of you am shocked to hear of Kent's passing. I played with him on the Football Team at East and I was always impressed with his abilities and his leadership dispositon.  We, like others, reconnected at the 50 yr reunion and shared breakfast with him and a few others.  He continued to impress me with conversations and his acceptance of us all.  When talking, it was like the 50 yr break in our relationship did not happen.  Like Randy said, "this is a real wake up call".  May we all meet again!  Thanks Kent for being you!


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